Quilt No. 103
February 2015
Say it with
fabric. I keep immersing myself in this
endless quest. And when I decided to
create a quilt for my daughter’s wedding, it was never more difficult. It needed to celebrate one of life’s key
events, and to wholeheartedly welcome Lucas into our family. It needed to depict something about them,
something they could look back on in their dotage that would make them say “Remember
that?” It also needed to show that as a
mother (and mother-in-law) I had at least some understanding of what they loved
to do. I didn’t want them to think that
I hadn’t been listening...
Each year they plan
their wilderness camping trip with great zeal, selecting the destination,
amassing the equipment, working through lists of gear and food, selecting
between the “must have” items and those relegated to the “wish list”. The duration of any camping trip is far
shorter than number of hours that went into planning it. Since this is a many-months-long focus in
their lives, I know how much it means to them.
After all, who doesn’t want to conquer nature with a canoe, two paddles,
a food barrel, and the luxury of a single roll of toilet paper?
Fortunately, I had
lots of time to plan their wilderness camping quilt - just as well because for
the first year of “planning” I came up with absolutely no ideas. During the second
year I came up with several crappy ideas, one of which had park symbol signs
stationed along the border in a freakish parade. Mercifully, that one never got off the design table.
Trying to force a
creative idea invariably sends it into that slippery-pig phase where the harder
you grasp at it, the more gleefully it eludes you. In the end all you have to show for your
efforts are greasy hands and remembered squeals.
I finally quit
actively thinking about it. Likely, my
subconscious continued to wring its hands over the problem, because not too long
after that, I was struck by the image of a tree trunk with their initials
carved inside a heart. It seemed like
something they might do, or rather, like something they would talk about doing, and then decide
against in order to avoid harming a tree.
Once I had the key
element everything flowed from there.
Well…I wish! It was more of a miserly
trickle, with more ideas tossed out than embraced. I at least knew the concept of what I wanted
– a lake, a canoe, an idyllic forest scene where a few animals made their home,
and a campfire. Bit by bit it came
together, eventually including a picnic and their favourite bottle of wine.
My plan was to put
ferns along the bottom, and I spent a couple of painstaking hours cutting out
fern-print fabric to capture the ferns without the background on which they
were printed. I arranged and rearranged
ferns for weeks on end without ever even approaching
a pleasing result. By the end of my
endeavours the ferns took on a flayed look, completely shredded from too much
handling. I moved on to flowers, combing
through my considerable stash of fabric, auditioning every possible floral
piece regardless of colour or size of flower.
It wasn’t much of a surprise to find that method yielded nothing.
During this time
period, wedding planning was going on.
It included a trip to help my daughter purchase her wedding gown. Of course, this brought back memories of my
own modest gown, and I pulled it out of the box that was hiding under a deeply
satisfying layer dust. This sparked
conversations with my sister about her wedding gown, so she retrieved hers as
well.
It was pretty clear
that styles have changed radically
since the 1980’s when gowns were demure and covered as much of the bride as
possible. High collars and long sleeves
were the trend, pretty much the opposite of today’s styles. For my sister and me, there was no doubt in our
minds that no one would ever want to
wear those completely outdated wedding gowns again. But that didn’t mean that they were of no
further value. Both gowns had flowered
lace in just the right scale to use on the quilt.
I remove some pieces
and started “testing” it. The lace readily
accepted Pebeo Setacolor fabric
paint, and was easily transformed. I
made orange flowers from my dress, and orange-pink flowers from my
sister’s dress. Hers also had lace in the shape of leaves, and this I painted green. The bluebells readily exchanged their bland white
existence for one of vibrant blue.
The tree has only a
few tender young leaves. It is at the
beginning of its life’s journey. I
removed the sash from my wedding gown and dyed it green. The synthetic fabric slurped up the paint
with gusto, and was relatively easy to use to make appliquéd leaves. A little silver metallic thread machine
quilting gave them the dazzle they deserved.
I still needed to add
the bride and groom into their own personal camping-quilt experience. Luckily I had one photo of them paddling a
canoe. Since I am not generally on the
invitation list for their camping trips (no one wants to portage a canoe,
numerous backpacks, food, paddles and one mother) I felt quite fortunate to
have snapped a photo several years ago at our cottage. I printed out the photo
of them in a canoe, and fused it onto the quilt.
I hope that this quilt
will always hold true for them, and that they will always paddle together through
all the sunny days and the inevitable sorrowful days that will build the fabric
of their lives.