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Florence and Malcolm (my maternal grandparents). I still have pieces of a quilt top my grandmother completed, likely in the late 1950s or early 1960s. Her leaf contains several fabrics from that quilt. There is a red, white, and blue dot section. I had a piece of clothing made from that fabric - shorts and a “pop top”. Everything had silly names back in the sixties. The purple/black portion was from one of the dresses she made for herself. Nothing was wasted back then.
Ida (my paternal grandmother). Ida has the honour of being represented by the only non-leaf on the tree! My grandmother lived in New Brunswick, very far from our Northern Ontario home. We traveled there only one time, in 1965. It seemed as far away as Mars to me. She had been a school teacher and had raised eight children, despite being widowed while all her eight children were still young enough to be living at home. From her teaching days she had saved several felt cut-outs each with a holiday theme – a tree, a turkey, a shamrock, a heart, a pumpkin, and so on. She gave these to me and I would play with them on a box covered with white flannelette. I’m bewildered that this captivated me for so many play sessions, but I enjoyed this activity for a number of years. Clearly, simpler times! I chose to use the turkey because it was the only piece with enough space in which to sew her name.
Lori (my sister). Lori gave me several pieces of fabric for the quilt including a piece of Stewart Hunting Tartan from a jumper made for her by a roommate back in the 1970’s. The gold/white/black flowers on the left side of the garden in the quilt are from fabric she bought for me. Also, the white/gold/pale blue and green upholstery fabric to the right of the roses was sent to me because it’s one of her favourites. I used the same plaid fabric for husband's leaf, and added in antique feathers from his mother’s favourite hat.
Connie.
Another early piece of fabric came from my friend Connie. She often sews and is well known for her
skill in making surgical caps for her physician daughter, Laura and her colleagues. I believe her sewing skills were well honed
during the years when her daughter was a child with an impressive collection of
Cabbage Patch dolls. I’m not sure what the final number topped out
at, but I do know the Cabbage Patch
crowd could occupy the entire top of a large bed leaving zero room for human
interlopers. These well decked out dolls
left Connie with plenty of fabric to choose from, so she wasn’t forced to
plunder her wardrobe for my Tree. The green fabric with gold accents in the shape
of leaves and flowers does remind me of Connie. I also used it to line the garden path on the left side of the tree. Connie is pure gold, and
remembered to bring me this piece of fabric despite the many far more urgent
worries in her life. At that time Wesley, her grandson, was just approaching
two years of age, and had been undergoing intensive treatment for a brain tumor
for many months. I’d previously made a
quilt for Wes, so I used fabric from that to add leaves for Wesley and his
mother. He is a very special part of my Tree of Life.2019 update: Six years later Wesley has just turned eight years old, and despite some physical struggles, is doing well. I follow his progress on Facebook. He has contributed so much to his family and has many times been the literal “poster boy” for fund raising and public awareness efforts at Bloorview Hospital and elsewhere. He is an endless ray of sunshine and one cannot view the infectious smile on Wesley’s face without being warmed to the core!
Bruna. I met Bruna through Compassionate Friends. This group is self-described as a “A self-help organization offering friendship, understanding, and hope to bereaved families that have experienced the death of a child”. They asked me to help them create a memorial quilt for their group. Each family contributed one block, and I put these together, creating a pair of quilts. These quilts, entitled Always With Us, currently hang in the building that houses the Timmins Public Library. For my Tree quilt I used some of the Always With Us border fabric to create leaves for Bruna, her husband, and two of their sons. For Adam, their son who passed away during his teen years, I used a bit of his shirt and a piece of a cherished childhood “blankie”, tying together his life as a young child and a teenager. I never got to meet Adam, but I feel that his leaf carries a significant presence on my Tree.
Bobby. Bobby’s contribution was truly unique for the magnitude
of time and distance it had traveled. He gave me a piece of a plaid towel that
he had brought with him when he emigrated to Canada from Glasgow, as a young
lad of eighteen years. He arrived by
himself to work in a mine, a better opportunity than could be had in 1950’s Scotland. His wife, my cousin, gave me a piece of a
kitchen towel – a most fitting item considering how much time we’ve spent
together in family kitchens over the years. One of our mothers was always the
chief cook, so we were usually placed on dish towel duty. My cousin’s son Rob sent me
his tartan tie from Scotland. I included the label from the tie on the Tree, since it seemed unfair to cut up a
perfectly serviceable tie and then not let it keep its identity.And...if you had enough stamina to read this far, yes, of course it's not too late to send me fabric so that you can be added to my tree! After all, what do trees do? They grow!

























